Getting Along with Your Ex’s Partner (and Your Kid’s New Step-Parent) with Lesa Ferguson
- Josephti Cruz
- May 1
- 2 min read
Divorce can feel like an ending, but for many families, it’s also the beginning of a new chapter—one that requires constant care, communication, and compassion. In this episode of Cover Your Assets, Lesa Ferguson joins Jade and I to share her experiences as a step-parent and the lessons she learned along the way. From setting healthy boundaries to putting kids first, Lesa offers a refreshing and heartfelt look at what it truly takes to build a blended family that thrives.
One of the biggest takeaways from our conversation was the importance of boundaries. Lesa explained that step-parents play a crucial role in children's lives, but it’s essential to respect the primary bond between biological parents and their kids. Showing support without overstepping ensures that children feel secure and loved, rather than caught between competing adults. Clear boundaries also create a strong foundation of trust among all co-parents involved.
Timing, too, makes a meaningful difference. Lesa shared how she waited a full year before meeting her now-husband’s children, a decision rooted in giving them emotional stability. Introducing new partners too soon after a divorce can create confusion or insecurity for children who are still adjusting. By prioritizing stability and being thoughtful about new relationships, parents can protect their children’s emotional well-being during a vulnerable time.
Of course, none of this works without open communication. Co-parents and step-parents must have honest conversations, not just about the big decisions but about daily expectations and family dynamics. Children thrive when they see the adults in their lives working together and presenting a united front. As Lesa put it, building a blended family isn’t about winning or losing—it’s about giving kids a healthy, supportive environment where they can grow.
Blending a family isn’t always easy, but when it’s done with love, respect, and clarity, it can be incredibly rewarding. If you’re navigating life after divorce or stepping into a blended family dynamic, this episode is filled with relatable insights and encouragement. Tune in to hear Lesa’s story, and learn how putting kids at the center of every decision can lead to stronger families and brighter futures.
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